If I could make YOU see the gift a relationship brings—I’d retire my wings and actually turn into a humanoid. (With boobs) 😛 If you look at a guy and a girl you’ll notice, there are TWO distinct parts that fit together quite easily. It’s NOT like you guys have a dick that’s in the shape of a staircase and we have to twist it, shape it (hopefully not break it in the process) to make it fit… It FITS.
You’re meant to fit to be together
SO…If the outer body is specifically designed to join you so effortlessly, then I ALSO believe the emotional blueprint (how get along effortlessly) without all this crap (I know hard to believe huh?) lies in the body too. J
For something to be developed sooo perfectly and that btw stands for allll things in nature. Doesn’t matter if you believe it came from God, the Universe (Buddha, Allah, Jesus) or it just went BOOM—and everything materialized! It’s STILL perfect.
If we look at a male and female polar bear we can TELL whose who (with us we’re not so sure). Behavior is KEY. It’s not about giving up anything, or any self perceived (or media induced) rights, in the romantic realm that need to be omitted, in order to have peace and ease. It’s about the synchronicity of two people, how they move to and from each other ‘emotionally’. How they vibe (together) does one get silent when they’re pissed and the other gets more aggressive when they feel ignored?
FEAR needs to be crushed here.
What actually holds us back from getting what we want, saying how we feel (instead of exploding) being honest and authentic with someone (so it can be real) is FEAR. And when fear rules, it means all decisions, thoughts and wants are presented on a platter of fear. Anything that has fear involved backfires…
Don’t take my word for it trace back your steps to the last decision YOU made in fear. Cuz you avoided saying something, waited to say something, did something (didn’t do something) in order to NOT get a certain ‘response’ you were expecting.
Which of course…. ensures YOU get that exact response you were trying to AVOID. LOL
If fear was to be completely wiped out—NOT in our vocabulary, it’d mean we’d HAVE TO be okay with WHO we are, our emotions (insecurities) no judgment on what we know or don’t know. Complete TRUST in what we’re capable of doing (or not doing) knowing we’re perfect right at this moment (just like a child) and everything we want will eventually COME TO US. Just like a child who expects… and gets (eventually). LOL Cuz I’ll tell YOU right now, if you look back at ALLLLLL the disappointment, devastation and disasters you had you’d will see that it made YOU turn a certain way, brought you to a new place (where you met someone) or you were told something ‘very’ helpful (and necessary) got you a NEW job! A new school where YOU met the one!!! And cuz you were so fed up (in the scenario, relationship, job) it forced you to cut it off and along with that a part of yourself… that ALWAYS held you back. So now you’re doing YOU… instead of him, her, them. <3 I salute YOU!!
Although sometimes it sounds contradictory to say relationships are SUCH a gift, cutting off someone that’s sucking your blood is huge weight off your face, like seriously cuz you’re walking around with this constipated look all the time. Lmao YOU will be more than okay!! Life’s got your back. Where you are in your development of awareness of that, will dictate where you need to be and with whom. There is nothing WRONG (you’re not being punished). There are no bad choices… they all serve YOU.
In order to PROGRESS…
Like training, you can not submit to fear, although he can be a bystander trying to get your attention. If YOU go regardless it’ll grow more and more silent, till he becomes MUTE. Kinda like, how you wish your girlfriend or boyfriend would be when they go on and on and onnnnn about things. LOL If you hold back… (cuz of fear) you’ll attract someone else who holds back in other ways. And it may not be apparent at first, but later it will. Course, if you are brave and speak your thoughts and feelings once in a secured exclusive relationship all your fears will start to play peek-a-boo cuz they only come out once they feel SAFE to do so and it starts to feel FAMILIAR. <3
THAT’S when the fun begins.
She burps… he FARTS. Like, alllll the time. Only in my situation it was me who farted. Yup. But he told me not to hold it in! And I refuse to hold back from my Man. LOL Besides, he said it smells like lavender and potpourri. IMAGINE that! My fart… smell like poo-poorri. LMAO Unless… I eat Turkish figs. Then it’s all over. I’m talkin’ serious putrefaction. And he’s like, “What’d ya do SWALLOW A DEAD MONKEY?!” 0_o “Uh… I don’t eat monkeys. Besides YOU told me to. You said don’t hold it in, so just inhale deeply it’ll be all over soon.” Honestly, I don’t know what the BIG deal is? It’s just a puff of air. Though… I have to admit our silencers can get to YOU. We’ll be snuggling on the couch… tucked way inside you and all of a sudden… there’s this green mist in the AIR… and the furniture starts to melt. LOL You’re on your elbows crawling to the door cuz you learned in science class hot air rises. So heads up (or rather down) w hen she farts…